Having a Baby

To many parents, the process of toilet train the toddler could be a frustrating one. This is especially true if he/she is their first child. Not only they need to learn how to watch out for signs indicating their little one is ready for toilet training, parents should also be prepared to devote sufficient time and attention throughout the toilet training period.

Once the parents have decided that their toddler is ready, the following tips could help to start the toilet training with good early results.

1. Make him get used to the potty

You can start as early as when your child is 15 months old when he begins to show signs of readiness for toilet training. First, explain to him what the purpose of the potty is. Then, begin bowel training by encouraging regular ‘potty’ times after a meal, especially if he tends to move his bowels at that time into his nappy. The best ‘potty’ time would be after breakfast as the gastrocolic reflex is most marked after a night’s rest and this reflex helps to move and empty the bowel. Clean him up immediately after he has finished and encourage hand-washing to follow. Remember to praise him for every success.

2. Wean him off the diapers during day time

The moment he remains dry for long periods during the day, take him off the diapers. You may still need diapers at night initially. Let him wear simple underwear that he is able to pull off and put on with ease. Encourage him to use the potty during day time. Remember to change his underwear immediately whenever it is wet or soiled. Changing the diapers rather than leaving him wet or soiled will enhance his desire to stay dry.

3. Try to do away with diapers at night

Leave his diapers off at night when your child is able to stay dry during day time naps. Make sure you encourage him to empty his bladder before going to bed. Leave the potty near his bed and encourage him to use it independently. However, if he has more than 3 wet nights in a week, it may be a better idea to leave the diapers back on and try again later. Forcing him will only disturb his sleep and he will be fretful and tired during day time. 

4. Train him to use the toilet

When your child has mastered the use of potty regularly, it is time to encourage him to use the toilet bowl. Children need time to develop the confidence of sitting on the toilet bowl as some may be afraid of falling in. Some may also be frightened by the sound of the flushing water while others may enjoy doing it themselves! Though seems trivial, make sure you flush the toilet only when your child is out of the toilet initially.

5. Boys need extra training

Boys need to graduate from a sitting position on a potty to a standing position at the toilet bowl. They also need to ‘aim’ at the toilet bowl before passing urine. A small piece of toilet paper placed in the toilet bowl for him to aim at may be a good start.

It may take up to 2 to 4 months to successfully toilet train a toddler. It cannot be rushed. It is important for the parents to stay patient and supportive during this period. Do not punish and be sympathetic to your child when he has an accident. Above all, be sure to praise all attempts to use the toilet, even if nothing happens.